For many working mothers, potty training is more than teaching a new skill—it’s about balancing time, energy, and consistency in a busy schedule. Between office hours, household responsibilities, and childcare, adding potty training can feel overwhelming. Some parents try to complete it in a weekend, while others delay it out of fear of accidents. Experts, however, emphasise that potty training does not have to be rushed or stressful.
Dr Poonam Sidana, Director of Neonatology and Paediatrics at CK Birla Hospital, advises treating potty training as agradual and structured process. The focus should be on readiness rather than age, ensuring the child is comfortable and confident throughout the process.
Instead of focusing on age, watch for indicators such as:
Staying dry for 2–3 hours
Showing discomfort in wet or dirty diapers
Expressing curiosity about the toilet
Following simple instructions
These signals suggest your child may be ready to start.
Begin by placing the potty chair in the bathroom and letting your child sit on it while fully clothed. Gradually move to sitting without a diaper for short periods. The key isfamiliarity without pressure.
Children thrive on routine. Set fixed potty times:
After waking up
After meals
Before bedtime
Consistency across home, daycare, and caregivers helps prevent confusion and setbacks.
Positive reinforcement is more effective than punishment. Praise attempts, use sticker charts or small rewards, andavoid scolding or comparisons. Accidents are normal, and patience is crucial.
Daytime control usually develops before nighttime dryness. Focus first on daytime success and dress your child in easy-to-remove clothing. Nighttime control may take weeks or months. Teamwork with family members and caregivers ensures a smoother experience.
Withconsistency, encouragement, and realistic expectations, potty training becomes a confidence-building milestone rather than a stressful challenge for both children and working mothers.
