In many Indian households, it is common for babies to sleep beside their mothers, a practice that has been followed for generations. Bed-sharing is seen as natural and comforting, helping with emotional bonding, easier breastfeeding, and quick response to nighttime crying. However, modern medical research highlights significant risks if co-sleeping is not done safely.
Dr Mohan Mahendrakar, Senior Consultant Neonatologist at Motherhood Hospitals, Kothanur, explains that while cultural practices are important, parents must balance tradition with safety. Major risks of unsafe bed-sharing include Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS), accidental overlay, entrapment, and suffocation — risks that increase if parents smoke, consume alcohol, take sedatives, or are extremely tired.
To maintain the benefits of co-sleeping while reducing dangers, experts recommend “protected co-sleeping.” Key precautions include using a firm mattress, keeping pillows and soft bedding away, placing the baby on their back, and ensuring a clear sleeping surface. If parents are unsure about full bed-sharing, room-sharing with a side-car bassinet or crib is considered a safer alternative, allowing proximity while providing a separate, safe space for the baby.
The goal is not to abandon tradition but to adapt it responsibly. Parents can preserve emotional closeness while ensuring their baby’s safety through awareness, proper precautions, and adherence to medical guidelines. With these measures, love and protection can go hand in hand, providing babies with both warmth and safety during sleep.
